Have you ever been so focused and out of the blue that some ex-partner wants to tell you that they miss you? Hmmm.. ok. I do not miss you. There is a reason that we are not together. You don’t have to hold a grudge. You don’t even have to hate them but there comes a point when you are just over the drama and toxic behaviors. There comes a point when you just don’t want to keep repeating the same crap over and over again. One of you must change, if not the cycle will never end. When they reach out you have to find the strength to not even respond.